Things Believers Do that Make the Unchurched Bristle

Episode #749
May 17, 2022
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Through our research, we’ve heard from the unchurched about things believers do that make them bristle the most. On this episode, Thom and Sam discuss a few of the most abrasive turn-offs.

  • Confuse me with gossip and bad behavior.
  • Mislead me with inconsistent messaging about your church.
  • Patronize me with trite spiritual answers to real problems.
  • Avoid me because I don’t believe the same things you do.
  • Bore me with lackluster worship and ministries.




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